Top o’ the mornin’ to you! Do you wish you had the luck of the Irish when it comes to love? Has romance been a source of heartache for you most (if not all) of your life? If so, I can relate! St. Patrick’s Day is right around the corner and, though it’s not normally associated with love or relationships, it is linked to luck. I thought you had to have a bunch of that in order to find love.
What Does It Really Take To Find Your Perfect Partner?
- Focus On The Pot Of Gold. I spent a lot of my time when I was single focusing on how to find the right person for me. What I really should’ve been doing was imagining the end result – the actual relationship. When you get tangled up in the how you block many different avenues that true love may actually take. If you stay focused on what your perfect relationship looks & feels like and leave the how up to the Universe to figure out, magic happens!
- Make Like A Leprechaun! Leprechauns are famous (or infamous!) for being curious, mischievous little devils. Instead of judging people & situations around you, get curious about them instead. Open your mind, say, “I wonder why (fill in the blank)? How interesting!” Instead of, “That is so (stupid, gross, wrong, clueless).” This slight shift will have a big impact on your vibe & the type of person you attract.
- Look For The 4-Leaf Clover. It’s very easy to get caught up in complaining. We tend to notice (and dwell on) what we don’t BUT, if you can train yourself to look for the good things, the magic – those little surprises that make us feel good – and dwell on those, you’ll start to notice more & more of them. It’s like creating a chain reaction of awesome! Try it!
Don’t be left out of the luck this March! Romance & love aren’t reserved for the lucky – they’re yours for the taking. So grab your share of the pot of gold. Cheers!